Sunday, January 10, 2010

Solid foods and more!

I know you're all dying for a "what's Emmy up to" report, so, here goes...

Emmy started eating solid foods last week! So far she's had brown rice, oatmeal, sweet potatoes, peas, applesauce, avocados, bananas, and green beans. For those of you secretly judging that she's had so many foods in one week, I know the standard recommendation is to wait 3-4 days in between each food, but I've been reading a book that suggests it doesn't really aid as much in detecting allergies as previously thought(plus their are no food allergies in our immediate family). The book also suggests that in fact babies learn to like a wider variety of foods if you give them new flavors in rapid succession, so she's been having a new food almost every day. We've got more veggies to try in the coming days, then we'll add more fruits. I want her to be a good, healthy eater so we're trying to give her a good start and make sure we're practicing better habits in front of her, too.

She's not entirely in love with anything yet, but she's getting used to it! She hasn't flat out refused to eat at least a little of each thing. Plus, it can take introducing a new food up to seven times before a child learns to like it, so we'll just keep trying them again and again! I don't think she enjoys the texture of the rice or oatmeal very much. So far I've made everything by mashing it up with a fork or pulsing it in a food processor. This should help her get used to the textures of the foods better, too. I think she's liked the bananas best so far, which is par for the course since her daddy eats a lot of bananas.

Oh, she did love the teething biscuit that Lizzie made for her, so I'll be getting that recipe soon, thanks, Lizzie!

Aside from new foods, she is of course continuing to sit up on her own all the time now. She can play for extended periods of time and it's so much fun to watch her play with her toys. She can push buttons on her musical toys and she can throw her blocks and rings anything else within reach. Well, it's more like she pitches them aside when she's done with them.

Emmy is very observant and she's always looking for the next thing she can shove in her mouth. It's hilarious to watch her inspect something, usually "taste" it, sling it around back and forth, then deliberately toss it aside. Don't worry, it's usually a toy, a piece of paper, a spoon or something else safe for her to be playing with. She's particularly interested in the remote control and the computer, but it's not so easy to let her chew on those. Above she is enjoying some tissue paper from a gift Jason and Jocelyn gave us when they came for a visit.

She is sitting up in her bathtub now for bath time, so it'll soon be time to make the transition to the big bathtub. Charles' and my knees just haven't been quite ready for that yet. We just got some new bath toys and a couple other "essentials" to make bath time safer and easier, so we'll probably make the switch this week.

She has been babbling more constant sounds the last couple of weeks. Da-da-da-da is her favorite phrase. We know she's not actually referring to Charles, but it is fun to hear her say. She also says Ba-ba-ba-ba and I'm working on Mama with her...haha. She still babbles, "sings" and squeals a lot like she has been doing for a while and that's still the majority of the "talking" she does. She loves music and she'll "sing" along sometimes, and she "talks" to her toys and to us or just to talk in general. Not surprisingly as my child, she's very verbal.

Ever since we traveled over the holidays her sleeping schedule has been a complete mystery. For most of November and December she was going down sometime around 6:30 or 7:00 p.m., waking up between 4 and 4:30 a.m. to eat, and going back to sleep until 7:15 or 7:30. If only I'd been making myself go to bed earlier I'd have gotten more sleep, but really, it was a good, predicable nighttime routine. Then Christmas happened and we started traveling, and since then it's been all mixed up. I'm not entirely sure it's the travel alone, because there are those darn teeth. There are days when she's so grumpy and drooly and I think "oh great, here comes a tooth, finally!" and then the next day, she's back to her usual self and there's no tooth. Argh! We've gone through teething tablets, Tylenol, and Motrin. I don't want to OD on the meds, but I don't want to let her stay in pain if she's really hurting. Oh if only babies could tell us what they want! I think we're going to start working on some signs this week so maybe I can teach her "hurt" so she can tell me herself. I just hope we see a tooth or two soon! And I really hope that sleep becomes at least somewhat predictable again. I've even been trying to go to bed earlier, only to be awakened a short while later. Sigh.

Emmy, I suppose you will get to read this one day and Daddy and I just want you to know how much fun it is to see you learning new things and growing up. I love the way you rub Daddy's stubbly face and you smile a huge smile for him when he walks in the door. I love the way you giggle when we make faces at your or when I cover your face with kisses and tickle your face with my hair. I love that you think it's hysterical if we are willing to make fools of ourselves or practically hyperventilate to make you laugh. I love how you are fascinated with your hands and you inspect them so carefully and watch your fingers wiggle. I love how you squeeze our hands and fingers (or whatever body part you can reach) when you're eating and when you're sleepy. I don't love when that squeezing involves fingers and your baby razor fingernails scratch. (Daddy dreamed he was being scratched to death when you were in bed with us early Sunday morning.) I wouldn't trade any of it for the world, even when you're grouchy and tired and it's 6:00 and I'm ready for a break when Daddy walks in the door. How can I be mad when your Daddy takes you in the living room and I hear you giggling for 10 minutes?

She's a lot of fun these days! Hopefully she'll get to spend sometime with all her "fans" soon.

Friday, January 8, 2010

8 months old!

Happy 8 months Emmy! We love you!
She was really interested in the monkey during this month's photo shoot.There's plenty more to tell you about what she's up to these days, but I'll have to save that for later this weekend when I'm not so exhausted. I spent the day cooking chili, chicken tortilla soup, and cornbread so I'm beyond ready for sleep. Have a great weekend everyone!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Happy New Year!

We had a GREAT time at New Year's. Thanks, Mom and Dad, for taking care of Emmy! She and Rags clearly had a good time at Su-Su and Big Daddy's house. I got to sleep through the night two nights in a row, and take a looong nap with one of my fellow new moms, Lisa. It was awesome.

Below is a shot of Emmy at Mom and Dad's hanging out and one of "Da Group" at New Year's. More pictures of Emmy are up in the January album, including pictures from our morning visit with my cousin Garrison and his girlfriend Nicole. It was so great to see them! Thanks for taking time to come by, y'all!


Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Saying good-bye to 2009

Wow, 2009 is coming to a close! Shortly we leave for our annual New Year's trip, also known as New Year's 2010 or New Year's XI, with our college friends. We have been getting away on a mountain retreat with them every year for the last ten years. A whole decade has passed! I laugh when I think back on that first year which was 1999/2000 and thus the big Y2K scare. Ha! Since then I have begun and ended each year (Charles missed New Year's 2004 and 2006 due to deployments) surrounded by some dear, dear friends who have seen us through plenty of good and bad times. It's a delightful tradition and probably the most relaxed we are all year.

So, of course we always reflect on the year behind, and the year before us. What a year 2009 has been! Last year at New Year's I was 15 weeks pregnant and full of hope and anxiety and excitement. Two of my dearest friends were also pregnant, one just announcing it at New Year's, and I looked forward to the year to come!

Charles and I joke that the odd numbered years have been a bit more difficult for us the last several years, and 2009 was no exception. While it has brought us great joy, no doubt, with Emmy's birth, the year certainly started out with a bang. At the end of January during a one week span Charles' mom was diagnosed with stage three ovarian cancer, I found out I was losing my job, and the doctor called with the news that our baby had a higher-than-normal chance of having a neural tube defect. WHOA. Talk about overwhelming. Looking back now, I'm amazed I didn't go nuts with worry.

While being laid off has been difficult and we're still adjusting to the loss of income, I'm so glad I've been able to devote my time entirely to being a mom. Charles' mom came through her chemo treatments with flying colors and is now, for all intents and purposes, cancer free. No one has yet used the term "remission" but I feel that it is inevitable! What a blessing. After she finished chemo her doctors had to make a few adjustments to her Parkinson's meds, but she's feeling great and looking great and we are so thankful. And then of course there's Emmy. What a little fighter! Thankfully, I had that test done that resulted in that false positive for neural tube. It allowed the doctor's to find the real problem and keep a close eye on us. After a lot of bed rest, countless prayers, buckets of tears, many sleepless nights, here we have this beautiful baby girl. She's grown and changed so much since May. Of course, I know that's what babies are supposed to do, but I suppose every parent feels these emotions anew and I can't help feeling that it is extraordinary to see just HOW far our tiny little miracle has come.

We lost Charles' grandmother this year, his only surviving grandparent, and we know she would have loved to have seen Emmy. But, we rejoice that Emmy still has two living great-grandmother's who are smitten with her and that they get to spend time together and we cherish those visits.

2009 has certainly been a special one for us and we're so grateful for all the blessings of the year and the good friends and family who have surrounded us and supported us. Truly, there is no way we would have made it without you! We look forward to a great 2010. Happy New Year everyone!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Christmas

Emmy had a good first Christmas this year! We all had a good time, it was just busy! My sister, my parents, and grandmother all arrived on the 23rd, just in time to baby-sit while Charles and I had a rehearsal for Christmas Eve. It's always a great service, but a three hour rehearsal two days before Christmas is tiring.

Christmas Eve morning we all had our usual Christmas Morning breakfast together. Yes, a day early since we were having an earlier lunch on Christmas Day. Meredith and Mom and I worked in the kitchen prepping for Christmas Day as well as getting dinner ready for Christmas Eve.

Our friends Nate and Amy and their baby Ryan joined us for Christmas Eve dinner. We had lasagna! Not traditional, I know, but I was able to make it before my family arrived and spend less time in the kitchen. We had a good time together! Emmy went to bed at her usual hour, then we woke her up to take her with us to church at 9:00. She was NOT happy with me for waking her up. Then when we got to church, she was like "hey I had a nap, let's play!" We had to warm up and rehearse, and then I checked back on her around 10:30 when the concert started. (Our church has a service of 9 Lessons and Carols that is at 11:00 p.m. with a half hour concert that is part of our Concert with a Cause series that starts at 10:30 which is mostly solos, ensemble, and chamber music). She was NOT happy and was having a hard time falling asleep, so I spent time trying to get her to sleep. By ten til 11, I had to go, so I laid her down in the crib. Fortunately, the nursery worker said she fell asleep quickly then.

The service is always so beautiful, if I do say so myself as a part of the choir. After church, Emmy woke up again, ready to play! We took her home and Mom put her back to bed while we went to Jim and Jamie's for soup and champagne. I was reminded that this is a tradition not meant for those of us while small children because I was SO TIRED! Waking up Christmas morning at 8 am was rough!

We woke up to a happy baby, and happy news that our friend Chase was an uncle. His sister, Nicole, gave birth to their baby girl, Amelia, at 7:37 on Christmas morning. She was three weeks early, so she was a surprise Christmas gift! Here is a photo Mom took of Chase and "Lia" a couple of days after Christmas.

Emmy sat up by herself for the first time Christmas morning, which was a nice surprise! She helped tear paper off her presents and proceeded to shove whatever paper, tissue, or ribbon she could in her mouth. It was a lot of fun! Here she is with Grandma after we were all done unwrapping gifts and showered for the day.

We had a big dinner midday with Mary Ann, Joel, and Mary Ann's parents, Larry "Bear" and Marilyn. I was a bit ambitious this year and made a crown roast of pork with apple pecan stuffing and mashed rutabagas and it turned out well, I think! Joel had smoked a turkey and they also brought mashed potatoes and two types of green beans so we had a TON of food! It was delicious and we all ate too much.

By the time we were cleaning up the dishes, I was exhausted. I had to stop for a while. My parents and grandmother left around 4 and shortly after I was asleep on the floor. Ha! Emmy and I then went back and took a nap on the bed for a while. Meredith stayed Friday night with us so we had some sister time. She left Saturday morning as we prepared to hit the road for Rome to see Charles' folks.

It was a quick trip to Rome but we had a good time. We had not traveled in a while so we didn't know how Emmy would do, but she did pretty well. She didn't nap well in the car, so we put her down for a late nap at the hotel. She woke up just before 6 and we went to get dinner, but we should have probably just let her sleep because she was not the happiest of campers at dinner. After dinner we took her back for her bath and let her play and open presents from her grandparents, and of course eat more tissue paper. She slept pretty well in her pack-n-play and since she went down later, she slept until 6. I love this photo I took of her sitting in our bed before we put her in her dress for church. So cute!

After church and lunch, we headed back home. Charles had to work Monday and we had to unpack and repack for our next adventure! We hope that all our "readers" had a wonderful Christmas holiday season.

LOTS more photos are in the December Picasa Album. Enjoy!

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas!

Emmy hopes that all her loved ones have had a very Merry Christmas.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Emmy's first starring role

It is tradition at our church that the youngest baby in the church is Baby Jesus in the "Birthday Party for Jesus" Christmas Pageant every year. Now, before you get illusions of grandeur, keep in mind this is mostly an impromptu performance done by the children's choirs. Sure, they rehearse their lines, but the itty bitty's in the Wesley Choir who play the angels sing one song alone and then several members of the junior choir have solos during The Friendly Beasts but mostly the whole audience is singing along with the kids. They play all the different members of the nativity and the mother and father of the "Baby Jesus" play Mary and Joseph.

As you can probably assume now, Emmy is the youngest baby at St. John, so this year she was Baby Jesus. That's right folks, we all three starred as the Holy Family. I was, as my friend Mary Ann pointed out, the Blessed Virgin Marion. Um, sure! I was extremely nervous about Emmy's acting debut for 2 reasons: it was close to bed time (and there had been an earlier and shorter than usual afternoon nap) and for goodness sake, she's 7 months old, hardly a newborn. It was a very unpredictable event.

Fortunately, Emmy was perfect! She started to get fussy right before we walked out, so I handed her to Charles because he can often get her to settle down better when she's tired, so Joseph carried Baby Jesus this time. She snuggled up with him, looked around a good bit the first few minutes, quietly "sang" through the first song, then about halfway through, she fell asleep! She was also really interested in the "animals" when they came up to do their solos, and then knelt by the manger. I caught her staring at Corey-the-cow a good bit. Watch out, Corey!

Here we are with the little Wesley choir singing their song. Note that Lucy on the far left couldn't stop looking at Emmy and grinning at the baby, Lucy on the right was clearly not happy to be up there. Something happened just before they went up to sing and it upset her. And allegedly Sam (tallest in the center) had an incident just before the performance and his halo fell in the toilet. Erika (one of the Moms/helpers) had taken him to the bathroom and she told him "Well, everyone's halo falls in the toilet sometimes," so that's our new motto.

Finally, here's the sleeping Baby Jesus.